A couple of years ago I decided that I needed to set some goals to work toward. Some short range some long range. One of the long range goals was to be debt free, besides mortgage and our car payment and I am happy to say that as of a few months ago we reached that goal! It made us think about the way that we spend money and it really has changed our lifestyle.
We set a goal to become more involved in our church and we have over the past several months. We attend regularly and give consistently. We have been going to Wednesday night supper. The church is right up the street so we can walk or drive in less than a minute. This is helpful in my weekly menu planning too! We see friends and meet new people.
I also made a goal to try and plan dinners for at least 4 nights a week. I try to make something on Sunday that can be leftover for Monday since I work all day. Tuesday is usually a sandwich day since I work all day too. Then I make something for Wed and Thursday. I am much more organized when it comes to grocery shopping. I always plan meals, make a list and shop once week, usually on Sundays. I sometimes have to run out on Thursday to get a few things that we might need. I have also gotten into freezing meals so I have a few things in the freezer when something quick but homemade is needed like spaghetti sauce or veggie soup. The weekends may consist of one night out (or ordering in) it just depends on what is going on. We try to sit down as a family and eat (though lately little JImmy hasn't been the best eater!) even if it is just for a few minutes. I think it is important to sit down and eat together as often as you can as a family. This has also considerable impacted our spending as we are not spending as much money eating out as compared to eating in.
Another goal I set for myself was graduate school. Now this one is long-range! I have no idea how long it will take me, hopefully no more than 5 years, as I balance work, family and school. I figured life will only get busier so now is a good a time as any. I have completed two courses, took this semester off and have registered for my class for the spring. Once I feel I have a good routine going with work and family I am going to attempt to take two classes next fall to make up for missing this fall.
I also wanted to get involved with something that would allow me to meet and interact with people beyond work and my own social circle. I have been hesitant to get too involved in something that would be too time consuming but recently I joined the Reunion Giving Committee for UVA Class of 2000 Reunion this summer. My friend Devon (hallmate first year and roommate second year) asked if I wanted to help out and thought this would be perfect for me. While I have no experience in asking people for money it is a great way to be involved in something with a dear friend who I don't see or talk to often enough as well as interact with some of my fellow classmates that I didn't even know while I was in school.
Lastly, I want to set a goal as far as fitness/weight control. I am in my thirties and it is time to begin some kind of routine. I really would like to set a goal and run a 5K so that is something I am thinking about.